… can, it appears, be found.Â
It has been speculated upon, by myself and many others, that once a person falls out of love they are hard-pressed, at best, to fall back into it with the same person.Â Time and time again I have seen people try to win back the affections of someone that has fallen (truly fallen) out of love with them.Â In most of those cases, failure has been the rder of the day.
I have seen it work, but when something fails enough, you start looking for external reasons for why it worked in the few cases that it did.Â You start doubting the validity of the cases in which it works.Â I have to admit that I was beginning to adopt this mind set.
However, along came Dustin and Mindy.Â First, he fell out of love (sort of) and left her.Â She hung around for a while, but, due the annoying fact that she was human, eventually fell out of love herself.Â As luck (and human nature) would have it, at this point, Dustin came to his senses and wanted Mindy back… oops.Â Mindy wanted to do her own thing, she had just gotten over this joker anyway.Â It looked as if they were done for.
Today I received an email from Mindy saying “the next time you see your brother, tell him I never want to be without him again”.Â They are happily back together, and I could not be happier about this.
What makes this unique, and worthy of mention, to me, is that fact that they have no external “need” to be back together.Â No children, no property, nothing.Â Which mean, they just want to be back together and are in love again.
Hope springs eternal!!!!!Â Today, I am very happy.